Betrayal Trauma

The Devastation of Infidelity

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The Path to Healing

Recovery from the trauma of sexual or intimate betrayal is a long journey. It takes time, effort, and commitment. You need a map and tools to help you make difficult decisions, and to support you as you take each step. With the right guidance, you can rebuild and reclaim your life with strength and dignity.

Reclaiming Your Peace

The sting of sexual betrayal can leave a profound impact on your emotional well-being, shattering trust and leaving you feeling vulnerable and lost. If you're grappling with the aftermath of infidelity, know that you are not alone. Many individuals experience the trauma of intimate and sexual betrayal, and there is help available to guide you towards YOUR healing and recovery.

 

Understanding the Impact 

Sexual betrayal is a form of emotional abuse that can trigger a range of intense experiences, including: rage, grief, disorientation, ambiguity, cynicism, jealousy, regret, longing, despair, fear, shock, bitterness, and exhaustion.

You try to shield the kids from the impact, but how? The pain is often overwhelming, so you withdraw to hide the situation from friends and loved ones, leaving you isolated from support and empathy.

The Healing Process

Healing from the trauma of sexual betrayal is a long and painful process. It requires time, patience, and a willingness to confront the pain and emotions associated with the betrayal. With the right support, you can navigate this challenging path and reclaim your peace, empowerment, and sense of self.

Frequently Asked Questions

How Can Sexual Betrayal Counseling Help?

Therapy provides a safe and confidential space to explore the emotional impact of sexual betrayal. In therapy, you will:

  • Gain a deeper understanding of your emotions and reactions to the betrayal
  • Develop coping mechanisms to manage anxiety, depression, and other emotional responses
  • Identify patterns and triggers that contribute to your emotional distress
  • Learn to communicate your needs and boundaries in relationships
  • Rebuild your self-esteem and sense of personal worth
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Rebuilding Trust and Rediscovering Strength

Healing from sexual betrayal involves not only addressing the emotional trauma but also rebuilding trust in yourself and others. Therapy can help you:

  • Explore the impact of the betrayal on your trust in relationships
  • Identify healthy ways to set boundaries and protect your emotional well-being
  • Learn to forgive yourself and others, not as a way of condoning the betrayal, but as a means of releasing yourself from the burden of resentment
  • Reconnect with your own strengths and resilience

How Counseling For Healing Trauma from Sexual Betrayal Works

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Step 1: Through our Intake Assessments, Save 2-3 Sessions by pinpointing the impact of the trauma

The impact of betrayal is far reaching. We assess your levels of impact in the areas of shame, depression, anxiety, stress, life satisfaction, and relationship satisfaction. We will help you discover the areas of most intense impact so we can customize your response plan.

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Step 2: Meet with a Certified Therapist, Review Your Assessments and Form Your Plan

Using the assessments to guide your intake therapy session, we will develop additional qualitative understanding, facilitating the development of your personalized healing plan. Your plan can include a diversity of interventions including individual therapy, group therapy, EMDR/ART/Brainspotting, couples therapy, yoga and/or mindfulness based treatments, neurofeedback, retreats/intensives, and more.

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Step 3: Identify the Right Therapist with the Right Specialization for Your Circumstance

Therapy success is determined, in large part, to the specialization and personality fit of the therapist. With a personalized plan in place, we will now match you with the right therapist having the right specialization and personality that will best support you in your recovery journey.

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Step 4: Pause, Reflect, and Continually Measure Your Improvement

With each client, our goal is that you find empathy, connection, safety and continual growth on your journey of recovery and healing.

If you find that your therapist isn't a fit, or that you're not progressing, let us know and we will pause, reflect and suggest improvements and/or a new therapist.

The Path to Healing:
Take the First Step Today

Reaching out for help is the most courageous step you can take on your path to healing. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and learn more about how betrayal trauma therapy can help you regain control of your life.

Together, we can create a fulfilling and meaningful future filled with hope and possibilities.

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